It can't be antiMormon. Good luck to you. But now, we embrace our spiritual differences. They might be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. Do people that are that busy honestly not have time to even think about their SO. If it seems one is unable to find a spouse within the church, which commandment do you keep. And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it.
It seems to me like you are walking into a relationship where there is a significant disconnect from the start. I know many of you understand how Im feeling and a lot of you have been there for many years already. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program.
But, you will probably lose. Do you want a home that is focused on the church with all of the blessings there of or a home that is devoid of the blessings of the priesthood, Sundays without your husband at your side at church with your children celebrating in the gospel. I am a soon-to-be Surgeon's wife and my boyfriend and I have started discussing the changes that are going to happen when he enters his residency.
The church can be a very cruel place for single people. Did things right and got married. I let people assume what they will. I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. If you are dating a Mormon man or woman, be genuinely interested in their religion. This can keep the relationship from getting too exclusive, and spending time with more people can give you a wider variety of things to do. I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment. Welcome to the future. You can also attend their singles conferences, or participate in social activities organized by the Church. So I feel a little frightened after reading this blog.